I think its time to again put some things in perspective and list out some things I want to improve on over the next few weeks/months. Ill also list things im good at so I can use these things more to my advantage.
• Im way to nice. Thats weird to say because I thought I mos def didn't have a problem with this. But its true, I think I have more become a pushover so to speak. I need to start presenting more of a challenge. Throw in hoops, don't jump through others hoops. I need to overall be more assertive.
• On that same note I need to be more dominate. Be a sexual male and be proud of it.
• I need to stop giving a shit, for real.
• I have plenty of experience to have the confidence. But I need to put my confidence into action. My life is 200x richer and more exciting and full of awesome people than the average person in the world. I need to believe in myself.
• Building on that. . . I need to do more approaches. Simple.
• I need to start using a method, put everything ive learned into a plan that is an atom bomb!
• Stop being emotionally reactive to things that don't go my way.
• I need to slow down sometimes. In otherwords I don't need to talk so much to try to keep someones attention.
• I need to flirt/tease/be sexually playfull.. MORE!
• Make things sexual, faster. Kino way more etc.
• Don't be afraid to pull the trigger or take a risk.
• During my interactions im comeing off way to needy i think. Again, I need to slow down and make most of what I say MEAT! and stay away from the crap talk just trying to keep her from walking away.
• I need to not ever look for approval.
• Use push pull more!!!! This goes along with flirtatious.
• No more looking for reactions!
OK!!! Now for things im good at.
• My conversation skills are awesome. I can have a 1 hr convo with pretty much any stranger on the planet. I need to use this and put is somewhere productive when im out. Put these skills towards attraction instead of random conversation.
• I have good body language. I need to make sure I maintain it.
• I can amp my energy, but I need to learn how to control that energy and focus twards my game instead of being excited and energetic just for the sake of.
• I very VERY good and reading body language and at calibrating socially. This is both a blessing and curse, and I think its something i was kind of born with. I can pretty much read a person without them even talking, but at the same time I can be very sensitive to social miscalabrations or "aquwardness." Sometimes I wish I was more dumb in this area. But I need to use it to my advantage.
• I know how to have a good time.
• I have competence. I am a good teacher but I do really need to put my money where my mouth is. CONSISTENTLY!
-Thats all for now, this list of course is always up for amendment.
