So we now need to win game shows to get friends?

I don't know why. I don't understand. I am drawn to watching at least one episode of new preppy mtv shows. Bromance is the latest. My god watching 30 seconds of this show make me cringe. Wow, and if you thought the PUA and the hills are bad, i think this ones got em beat. MTV and the like really have the formula for a reality show that will sell. Im talking specifically the "a bunch of people trying to win a relationship" shows. As far as I can remember, none of these won relationships have ever panned out in real life. Interesting isn't it. But for some reason I get drawn to this crap like a fly to a pile of poo. Right now im watching these guys try to pick up girls on the street to get them to go to some ultra rad party in Hollywood or something. I don't know exactly how much of these scenes are cut down but pretty much everything I see tells me that these guys have no idea what there doing. For example: One guy who actually gets a number ends up saying "She didn't seem very excited to go to the party." Well let me deconstruct what I saw from the short clip. He was super low energy, almost monotone. He portrayed someone who was needy and not confident. UMMMM no wonder she didn't seem excited about going to your party. If you don't seem excited about the shit your selling, how do you expect her to show enthusiasm over something she has very little information on? And wow, she actually showed up. I guess this proves there's not a lot of reality in these reality tv shows.

Ant Invasion

Somewhere in my apartment there is a colony of tiny little ants. I know this because if anything edible is left out for more than 3-4 hours (usually in some form of drunken state) it is swarmed by these little ants. I first noticed this when I left the garbage out one night planning on taking it out the next morning. I woke up to find a little ant highway leading all the way across the room to the garbage. Another little pest I have run across in my apartment is the house centipede. I hate these fuckin things. Theres nothing like clicking on the bathroom light to see a little creeper scurry across the floor. However, after researching these little bastards I realized that my ant problem may be due in part to my "Raid-Crusade" vs. the house centipedes. House centipedes eat pretty much all household pest from roaches to any other insect that may find my crib cozy. Ahh such is life. In the meanwhile, my battle with the ants will continue. (dont get me wrong, my place is not like overrun with critters I just happen to run into em' from time to time.)

Anways, as you can see from the last few posts, ive been kinda in the dumps lately. Im now wanting to rework my game. Im again going back to the basics. I think with all my success I abandon most things I learned expecting great things to happen to me. I have not been controlling my destiny. Im bringin the rockstar back!

Stag

ive become stagnant stale. I dont like the feeling. I need the spark, the fire back. I dont know what it is, the cold or what. I think I need to lose the fear. BRING IT!

Been a little down.

I don't know if its just the changing weather or what, but lately ive been a little reclusive. I think my body has been somewhat preparing for hibernation. I've just been tired all the time, wanting to sleep whenever im home. Consequently sleep and being tired have trumped going out on quite a few occasions over the past few weeks. Ive just felt a little lost and unmotivated. Ive still been getting laid by the regulars. But that fire and excitement to go out and meet new people and in general have fun has kind of left me.

Ugh, well enough of that. Im finally feeling that spark come back. Maby i just needed to give my mind a little break. Hopefully ill have something prosperious to post over the next weekend.

Things that get me off.

Being the first one on the mountain on a fresh powder day
Epic nights out with my homies
Traveling
Spontaneous road trips
Music that makes my spine tingle
Unsweetened iced tea with fresh lemon
Chipolte chicken burritos
Morning binge drinking followed by an afternoon nap (not often of course) :)
Nebraska Football nolstalga
Discovering why people are the way they are
Late night alone time
Discovering something new
Getting the girl
Playing the guitar
Being around cool peeps

to be continued. . .

Nut UP!

This is just a little message to myself. Just remember it. You've proved it, do it.

Wooah!

Ok, I know I haven't posted in awhile. I just haven't been motivated to. Hopefully Ill be gettin back in it shortly.

VH1's The Pickup Artist 2

Round 2 heeeeere we go.

Last year I remember being pretty excited about The PUA on Vh1. Ultimately I was a little disappointed. Overall in my eyes, the whole show was a bit lame. It seemed to me like a scripted show that did not show anyone what learning and practicing "PUA" material was all about.

So of course I was very curious when the first episode of season 2 came the tube last sunday night. I wanted to see if there was actually going to be any substance to this seasons antics. To sum it up, I am thus far not sold. But, on the bright side, it seems like the entertainment value of the show has definitely been upped. The contestants are more pathetic and overall the production value seems to be pushed up a bit for this season. So for now, I am hooked in for at least one more episode.

As for the controversy over if this show is going to "expose" the community: Ill tell you the story of a few of my roommates last year who were ecstatic over the show. They thought they were going to finally learn how to talk to the ladies. They watched, they learned nothing substantial and eventually the show was forgotten. I'd bet a fair amount of money this scenario was very typical of last seasons impact. I think many people in the "community" don't realize that most people in this world don't have the dedication to commit to doing what it takes to actually make breakthroughs in their game. To be frank, I don't think a sensationalized reality show will be inspirational enough for many men to see what learning this material can do for their life.

This Weekend.

Mom and sister are coming to visit this weekend. It should be a pretty quiet one, also considering next week is going to be super busy at work. Im already looking forward to being done with next week. Not a ton going on right now in the love life, and actually i feel just fine with it. I of course still have a few girls out there who are interested. I'm just gonna give it this weekend and next week before I get back into the swing of things. :)

Reconnected

Well, for the past few months ive been trying to get by stealing internet from neighbors and such. To make a long story short, its been a royal pain in the ass. So today, I finally gave in and hooked up my net. I just got tired of desperately searching for a reliable connection pretty much every day. Ive kinda realized im an absolutely spoiled person. Ive been blessed with so many things in reality I should have nothing at all to complain about. I grew up with a great family. Ive always gotten pretty much everything ive wanted. Im so spoiled, if I don't have a good internet connection, im not happy. It's kinda crazy if you think about it. Like I said, in reality I have nothing to complain about.

I went out in St. Paul tonight, for the first time ever. It was in a way refreshing. Going to a new place that is out of my comfort zone so to speak. I think I want to start branching out and going to new places more often.

I miss my ipod.

Wow, its been over a month.

In all reality ive hit kind of a slump and am looking to revive myself. I really have nothing else to say.
Its been one hell of a summer. The weather is starting to change here, football season is in full swing and it feels like everyone is gearing down a little bit. Ive decided to kinda do the same. I want to re-gather my energy and gear myself up for the rest of the year.

In other news my ipod is in the shop. I sent it in to get a new battery installed. I bought a service plan a little over 2 1/2 years ago when I bought it, and am happy ill be getting my moneys worth. So, for the next few weeks ill be listening to the radio, and oh my does radio suck.

2 Years In the Game.

It’s been about two years, two years since I discovered pickup. This is the point in my life were I want to decide which direction to go. Do I leave it behind, or do I continue. Pickup has givin me so much it seems. Two years ago my dating life was absolutely stagnant. I had nothing in the form of female company, nor did I have any idea of how to fix my dilemma. I think about that person and I hardly recognize him. Flash forward to now. Confident, competent, controlled, humble. A man with options. I man who has the tools to get what he wants. Not only in his dating life, but in all aspects of life in general. I think I noticed a few months ago, I appeared to be this person on the outside, but did not feel it on the inside. Through all my study and practice I had become what I wanted. But my psyche had not yet caught up. Remember the little saying “ fake it till ya make it”? I think ive discovered that if you fake it long enough, what you are faking you will slowly become. This may seem like a negative thing. But in my case I believe it has been the opposite. By learning how to appear to be a stud ive slowly become the stud. I am now a 100% believer that the only way to improve yourself is through experience. Im confident that if I want a girl, she can be mine. I feel like I have so much knowledge in my head about social interaction, I need to pass it along. So here’s my decision, I’m in. I want to show others the path that helped enrich my life. I also want to remain a student. I believe that if you stop learning, you stop growing and become stagnant. I always want to be a learner and never the man who thinks he knows it all because honestly, I don’t think I ever will know it all. In two years ive gone from hopeless and insecure to now: In the past few months ive had a new girl almost every week, all quality. If I want attraction I can make it happen. Ive learned the eb and flow of seduction and subtleties embedded within every interaction. Confident and competent, yet at the heart of it all, still a humble student.

I think ive actually been in the game my whole life, but its taken me the last two years to actually learn how to play.

A quick look back.

A little over a year ago I started keeping a little personal journal. It was pretty much just me spilling anything I was feeling or thinking onto a word doc on my computer. Its been awhile since I wrote in it and earlier this week, I took some time to read all of my entries over the past year. After reading all of my entries, I made one more. "Im amazed at how far ive come in the last year, and im truly proud of myself." It felt very very rewarding.

This past weekend I pulled in one of the sexiest girls ive ever been with. It took almost no effort. Ive reached a point where I can say I am close to "seeing the matrix." This summer has been awesome. Ive had more results than I can hardly imagine. In the past 3 months ive been with more girls than I thought possible, and all were quality.

Im proud, thankfull and egar to learn more.

All this work.

Work has really been taxing me these last few weeks. Between my job and my rockstar-esque social agenda I have probably been averaging no more than 4-5 hours of sleep per night. That is, until these last few nights. I think all of my nights of minimal sleep have caught up with me and put me into a narcoleptic state. Two nights ago I slept for 13 hours. Last night I slept for a little over 11. I really don't think this kind of schedule is healthy but whatever, I don't really care. . .

BE BOLD.

Thats it, no explination needed. Well, maybe a small one. But right now its 8 am on sunday morning, I havn't slept and need to catch some z's and be up in about 4 hours.

Lots of cool stuff goin on right now. Ill start trying to post here more often from now on.

Some thoughts on sincerity.

Good weekend so far. I havn't done much at all in the terms of cold approaching. My social circle has started to grow exponentially and the last two days I have pretty much been solely dedicated to them. Its been fun, Ive been seeing a couple girls and have a few on the hook. Life again, is pretty darn good.

Lately ive been doing a lot of digging into the heads of some of the more attractive women in my life. Im really just trying to get more first hand insight into how they tick. In doing so, ive started to more solidly formulate what "just be yourself" really means. Women, as most of us already know, have an incredible intuition. From what ive deduced most guys that approach could exponentially improve their performance by dropping the face they put on when talking to an attractive woman. Naturally, a guy wants to "put his best foot forward" so to speak to impress whoever he is talking to. But actually, what this does is throw up flags that you are insincere, creepy and weird. I think this is why routine based game works. The routines are structured in a way that they eliminate this guise, but underneath it all, they are of course still not sincere. They are a great way to learn how social interactions work. There also a great thing to keep in your back pocket to keep an interaction moving. But overall, as your skills progress, they are something that should not be depended on.

The entire process of learning game, in its entirety, is to become a better person who drips with charisma, and with enough practice no matter who you are I believe thats what you can become.

Don't be an emotional tampon.

This should be a no brainer by now.

But we all know where it leads, its called the friend zone! and as everyone knows, the friend zone sucks.
Ive known for awhile now how to stay out of the friend zone. Its all about escalation and correctly framing the interaction, Basically dominating and leading the interaction where you want it to go.

Unfortunately, I let it happen to me, again.

I turned into the crying shoulder, and it gave me a feeling I have not had in a long time. It felt really funny because it reminded me of the old me and before I realized it, it was too late and I was kicking myself for it. The reason it happened is I let the girl lead the relationship, and although there was sexual attraction to begin with she didn't know that taking the interaction down this path would lead to something strictly platonic. The feeling I ended up having was frustration, knowing that I messed up. But it's a learning experience. I let this happen, its all on me, so remember: You should be the one in control.

This is Truth.

The dam is breaking.

Over the past month or so I have been with out cable, or any TV at all for that matter. Now there is a reason for this, and that is I havnt gone back to my old place to pick my TV up yet. Strange as it may sound, being without an entertainment source like TV has actually improved my game. It has forced me to rely on other people for my entertainment. I has helped me eliminate my internal excuses for not calling a girl (or anxiety about calling a girl) because if I don't, ill sit in my apartment alone and board.

My life has kind of exploded in front of me this past weekend. I hooked up with a girl on thursday night, then another on Friday night. Saturday night was kind of mixed. At first I was rolling like a champ then my stupid AA reared its head again. Oh well, I can be proud of at least half the night. Then today I had a simi day date at the mall which involved shopping talking and a little lunch. I can't quite figure this girl out. She seems like she is totally into me but there's something that also tells me she could be a major flake/tease. I think the best move in this situation is to just plow forward and let things unfold as they should. I set up another get-together with her tomorrow before she works but just got a text from her saying she won't make it. It is for sure a flake message but understandable. She has to go way out of her way to come over to my place tomorrow before work and for a quick get together I don't think I would want to do that either even if I really really liked a girl. Anyways, she's still cool in my book, im just gonna have to keep my eye on her.

Life is good. For now anyways, I have more options in terms of social life and women then I think I have ever had. One guy who has been very influential in my life recently who I don't think I have talked about is JS. Or so I will call him for now. JS has taken me under his wing and has shown me directly and indirectly how to create a great social circle and be the type of person people gravitate towards. I am in a way taking what I am seeing, analyzing it, and turning it into an explainable method. From what I have seen, being a person people want to be around is really all about value. It is about being a confident leader who gives value to everyone around him and makes them feel better about themselves. It is also about talking to everyone and meeting everyone you can. At the same time however, you have to be humble about the impact you have on people because with such a strong appearance any form of bragging or anything like that will come off as arrogant or asshole-ish. Of course im still learning more, but in the process really enjoying myself.

rock'n roll

Just Go For It.

I think the title of this post says everything I really need to say. Like I previously stated: Don't say more when less will do. I think Just Go For It, will do.

But just writing that right now is probably about as much fun as reading it. I looked back today at a post I made almost a few months ago about goals for myself. I can honestly say I have accomplished a great number of those goals.

This post is going to be one part LR and one part how my overall game has looked recently.

About two weeks ago we were out for one of my ex-roommates bdays. I was an absolute blast. Rod was out with us also which always makes for a great time. He closed a stripper from the weekend before which was a cool thing to hear about. We went to lodge bar which was pretty dead. Marc and his GF met us there, she was still paying way more attention to me than him or anyone else for that matter and I am still getting IOIs from her left and right. The only reason im not moving on that one is I don't want to sacrifice a friendship for a lay. Reasonable logic.

After leaving lodge, we headed to a place called champs. They have an outdoor bar which was pretty crowded and seemed to have a good crowd. Walking through the crowd I snagged a cute girl, spur of the moment style. She turned out to be absolutely smashed. She was with a friend who was equally attractive. When her friend approached us we had been doing a little dancing because, well, sometimes when I get drunk (which I also was) I tend to do that. Right when her friend introduced herself to me she pushed me away. Im not sure if it was a shit test, or her version of a false takeaway or ASD. I replied with what I am certain saved the set. "Thats too bad, nice meeting you though." Then slight back turn, then turned back and engaged the friend. She ended up buying me a drink and thinks got to the point where it was getting sexual. The original girl then came back in and interrupted us. The make out was almost instantaneous. I eventually took her down to the end of the long outdoor bar and with her, sitting on a bar stool, legs wrapped around me, she proceeded to pull my big guy out and put it to use. So it happened right there in the bar, but only for about 30 sec. A few people were walking a little closer, including a bouncer and I didn't feel like getting arrested that night.

Her friends then drug her away because they were catching a cab out front, I can't remember her nor did I get her phone number. Oh well. We decided to go to the imp. room which was pretty crowded and I was pretty drunk. I got approached by a cute girl who had actually seen me at champs (not having sex, but just in general). I worked it and # closed it, the logistics at that point were completely out of whack givin she was with about 15 others and was most than likely not leaving them. In a nutshell thats my story.

Other than that life has been pretty good. A few things I want to work on:
•Work on communicating with women on a more emotional level.
•Have positive, sexual, confident energy with body language to match.
•Work on giving myself approval (kuddos Cpt. Jack) and attracting others to me by giving them approval when they deserve it.

Take me away, from that empty apartment. . .

Moved into my uptown apartment last weekend, sort of. I have no furniture. That means no couch, bed or any other living amenity to speak of. spent the last few nights sitting on the floor with my back against the wall cruising you tube videos. To be honest its kind of depressing. Im sure my spirits will improve when I can get this place feeling a little more "homey."

Im going back to Nebraska this weekend to get a few things from home that I left behind when I moved up here over 3 months ago. In that time frame ive had 2 new lays quite a few make-out sessions and a ton of phone numbers. I can realistically say that my game at this point needs a lot of work. The numbers that I have seen are not great/consistent enough for me, not even close. I am almost convinced at this point a few of the key areas I need to work on are my confidence, aggressiveness and willingness to push beyond my comfort zone. In other words trying to push the envelop and having little to no regard for rejection.

This last weekend I have to admit, was way to drunk and off the map. Friday night started off great, I was opening sets and making some good progress, but by the end of the night, from what I remember I must have been going full-boar, 100% caveman. From what I recall I made out with at least 2 girls in-between 1:45 and 2:30am. Im pretty sure there was more or less no game run at all at that point. Just straight to the make out. From what Joe told me, at one point he and I walked up to one girl, got accused of being gay together then proceeded to pass her back and fourth, taking our turns tonguing her down. I would pay a lot of money at this point to see video or hear an audio recording of myself that night. It's too bad I barley remember it. Saturday night really doesn't even need to be talked about. It was not very good and only ran 1 decent set and had them hooked. But I eventually discovered they were all ugs after taking a better look at the body my target was sportin'. So everything pretty much staled out because no escalation was taking place. After the bars closed we went to the strip club which was nothing more than a waste of sleep for me, I wanted nothing more than to be home at that point.

On a brighter note, one girl who's phone number I lost started me again yesterday wondering why she hadn't heard from me. Im optimistic.

-S

Goals for Myself

-Exude sexuality.
-Exude confidence.
-Don't say more when less will do.
-Have stronger eye contact.
-Have more relaxed body language.
-Be more controlled aka non-reactive.
-Approach with an empty and open mind. Don't hesitate to think about what to say or anything, just do it.
-Make at least one persons day, everyday.
-Be the party, and make sure everyone around you is included and enjoying life.

Im sure there's more to add I guess Ill have to add more later.

Refine and Structure.

This weekend was definiatly a step in the right direction for me. I ran a few very good sets. I really wanted to just work on opening and transitioning, which i think I did well.

One thing I see that I need to start working on is my efficiency. I need to put structure back into my game and cut out all the white noise. Also, I still need to practice, work on my approaches and get better.

I still believe I am much better than I think I am currently.

Sleepy Saturday Night

I took some much needed personal time tonight. Didn't go out, just stayed in an slept.

After last night I felt like I just needed to get back into a neutrual gear. Plus, after getting off of work I was increadably exausted. I realized I could either force myself to go out or take a night off and chill. I chose the latter of course, which I think was a great decision.

Strange Days.

Wow, I need to keep this more up to date. All apologies.

I am actually enjoying my new job, about to move into a new place (out of the burbs' and into the city!) and happy with life.

Unfortunately, I am not happy with tonight.

The last three weeks or so I have been in a bit of a slump. My game has most definiatly taken a turn downward. I am not exactly sure why, overall, it boils down to a lack of confidence on my part. I have no idea where this came from, but my AA has kicked in hardcore.

Tonight, I felt great before I headed out, then, after I got out I felt like a total turd. I had terrible AA and just couldn't put words together. My mind felt like it was blank. After sittin around and drinking for awhile, joey opened a 2 set for me. I started chatting one girl who at the time was doing a good job of devoting her attention to me. I just could not make it happen. It was aquward, weird and through the entire interaction I could feel it. My mind was lost, it was all lost and i felt unraveled. At one point I pulled a routine, unfortunately, it was totally uncalibrated and went over like a shit-sandwich. I tried to go playful and told her I had her pegged as a bad girl, even though she seemed shy. She responded in a "WTF does that mean" manner. However after a bit her reaction was confusing me. I coulent tell if she was upset/offended or turned on. I truly didnt know what was going on. But I really didn't know how to handle it.

Oh my do I need to re-calibrate my game.

A Snowy Weekend.

My weekend definitely was not very crazy, but overall it was not too bad.

Friday night I went on an excursion trying to find one of my roommates friends house. I got lost on the way there and spent about an hour driving around in some neighborhood with absolutely no idea of where I was. I finally found the place and we headed out. I was completely out of state and upon returning home, I regretted going out. I guess sometimes I just am not in the right mood.

Saturday night however was a lot of fun. Me and the roomies went out to our favorite little mexican place and had a few margaritas. We ran into a couple cute girls and grabbed their numbers before we headed out.

Me and Joe headed downtown around 10:30 and hit the town. There was a live band at the place we ended up at, which proved to be rather entertaining. I owned a few sets and wound up sarging a super cute, short blond with huge knockers. Ill post a FR of the night later, but for now, its bed time.

Back to Business

The past few weeks for me have been full of ups and downs. I have a lot of stuff going on in my life right now and it has left my mind kind of jumbled.

I had friends visiting from back home the last two weekends so my attention was mainly focused on them.

I am ready to get refocused and resume business as usual.

Livin' Logistics

Ive realized that where I live and my living surroundings have a huge impact on how well I close.

Right now I have 2 roommates, one of whom is very experienced with women and pulls on a regular basis. The other roommate is the absolute opposite. He is about 3 years older than me and to be honest, im not sure if he has ever had a sexual relationship, EVER. The majority of his friends are exactly like him. I really don't mind spending the occasional night out with these guys, they do have their redeeming qualities, but for the most part they are all chumps. Me and roomie #1 are planning our AFC intervention with roomie #2, don't worry. :)

I also currently live in the burbs.' Being that my most frequented spots are downtown or near the area, for a girl to come home with me, it takes a very large commitment on her part. There are actually some pros to this, but im not convinced they outweigh or are equal to the cons.

For example, if you are brining a girl back to your place all the way out in the burbs, it means that she has almost certainly committed to sleeping with or at least gettin down in some fashion with you that night.

On the other hand. . .

The logistical roadblocks are ridiculous! Lets say she is not quite ready to commit to getting down with you that night. In that case a hike out to the burbs where she will most definitely be spending the night is a deal breaker. In this case, living within earshot of your social venues of choice can dramatically improve your close rate.

Another variable is the roommates.

One thing I have realized is that living with roommates leaves a lot of things out of your control. For example, when I come home some nights I am not sure if my roommates are going to be asleep or having friends over getting drunk. Some situations can create a state break that I would preferably not want to deal with. Anyone living in a similar situation can in some ways relate to this. Anything that is going to make the girl uncomfortable needs to be nixed, and let me tell ya, there have been a few situations with my roommates (even though I still love em) that have made girls uncomfortable.

I have deduced it is really about the most control over the situation as you possibly can, creating smooth bounces that maintains the state of the interaction without any surprises or uncontrollable variables on your end.

The ideal situation would be to live in your own pimped out pad, near the action. But of course, its not a perfect world and you have to deal with the cards you have in front of you. One thing I can say is: With all of these logistical challenges, if you are still pulling, you must be doing something right.

ps. I am planning on making my move this summer. :)

LR's/Thoughts

Ive been doing a lot of reading lately. Mostly on how I can tighten up my game. I just want everything to become more natural. Cajun has become my new favorite PUA, his posts on body language and subtext are spot on. Just by focusing on the points he made in a few posts, I have seen a noticeable difference.

With that said, im going to go over a few things ive learned in the past month.

-Women definitely want sex just as much as (if not more than) men.
-About 75% of the time, if a girl approaches you, she is just as nervous and socially un-calibrated as most AFCs. The most common approach ive gotten from a girl is some sort of over sexualized "HEyyyyyy" with a porn-esque seduction look on her face. After reframing ive discovered that she's just a normal girl who wanted to meet me (because we all know that her frame was eventually going no where).
-Its all about the vibe.
-Women are definitely not rational creatures, you flip their switches you can pretty much get away with anything, (more on that later). ;)
-Girls go along with anything if you've run proper game and act like it is completely natural
-Boyfriends don't matter.
-Day 2 movie outings are a terrible stupid idea (finally got this one through my head).

Anyways, A saturday ago, me and the roommates went downtown for a little drinkin/socializin excursion. At around 10:30 I started getting texts from a girl who I had hung out with a few times. We were at a place that really was not happening at all, it was about 10 people sitting around with mope looks on their faces. The drinks were priced right but of course, well, it sucked. Eventually we decided to go meet up with textgirl, she was with a few friends and knew it was in the bag. We ended up meeting them at a 18+ club called Spin. Textgirl met me at the door and drug me upstairs to the VIP.

Kendra from the girls next door was there doing some sort of promo for the club. Life must be rough, partying for a living. We made it to the upper VIP level and went to the back bar a grabbed a drink. I quickly escalated with textgirl and had a quick make out session in a dark corner. I was satisfied taking her home that night.

Eventually we ran into her friends, on of whom was my initial target when I met textgirl. After discovering she had a very serious boyfriend and observing the advances of textgirl I went with the latter.

I chilled for a min and realized there was something going on with the group that had people a little on edge. I still don't really know what was up. Eventually, I got tired of the super negative mood and decided to take control of the situation. I don't remember exactly what I said (it was nothing more than friendly, i wanted to befriend the group to avoid any logistical situations later), but 2 words in my face was met by a hand and a girl saying "STFU, I DONT WANT TO HEAR ANYTHING YOU HAVE TO SAY!" I replied, "Well, thats just fine with me." At which time I walked 5 feet away and immediately opened another group that looked like they were having a blast. I got immediate IOI's from HBbouncy. I dropped into my regular "natural routines" and started framing accordingly.

Ran the You look like trouble game, role playing etc.
I isolated, qualified and started into comfort. During this time she said, "Hey my friends said you were here with thoes girls, whats up with that?!" To which I replied, "Hey, that dosn't mean we cant be friends! Your so cute you could be like my little sister, wait that would be kinda weird wouldent it." She ate it up.
I K-closed and eventually could not get the girl off of me.

It was about this time I realized textgirl was witnessing this all go down. Needless to say, she was none too happy.

I bounced between the two for a bit and eventually came to a revelation. As long as I acted like everything I did was part of my life and natural, the girls I had gamed were ok with it. Eventually, HBbouncy went missing, but I had her # so it was all good. The tracks had been laid.

At this point I was on fire. I had textgirl and boyfriendgirl all over me. I was getting AI's everywhere, jealously plot lines blowin up left and right. Textgirl and boyfriendgirl pulled one last shit test: "I can't believe you, we dont like you anymore for what you did tonight." I back turned and opened a set right behind me. The set flew open but before I could say more than a few sentences textgirl and boyfriendgirl literally pulled me back in.

Textgirl eventually ran off somewhere leaving me with boyfriendgirl. I ran a little attraction which ended in her kissing me.

End of the night rolled around and me and the roomies rolled out with the two girls. At coat check I ran into HBbouncy again. She pleeded with me to call her. She left me with a quick kiss and we were off.

Back at our place we chilled. Things between the group started to get squirlly and eventually ended up in my room. Boyfriend girl followed me right into bed without any coercion, and after dealing with a little LMR, the full monty ensued. At about 5:30 in the morning boyfriendgirl says "Hey, in the morning this never happend, ok?" Thats fine, it was a night of fun and adventure for her, im happy I could provide. Im such a home wrecker. :)

The following friday I was chillin and playing darts with my roomie and eventually met up with HBbouncy. When she rolled in she came upon me gaming 2 HBcollegegirls. I ended up taking HBbouncy back to the pad, and layin her out.

Long post I know, with a lot of details missing. Just a little insight into my life. :)

New Year, new stuff!

Well its been over a month since I last posted. I want to start to write more, but of course, things don't always work out the way we want them.

I have lived in Minneapolis now for about 2 weeks and I am enjoying myself throughly. Still job hunting during the week but having a lot of fun on the weekends. New years was a absolute blast as well, along with skiing in colorado. My last few weeks in Lincoln turned out to be a really good time. So with that said, life is good.

I had a bit of a rough night last night, more or less because I got WAY too drunk. I am making a commitment to stop doing that as often as I do. Got thrown out of a bar, for doing nothing but exchanging words with some guy and I still don't know what he was mad about. Almost got hit by a car, in addition. After the bars closed at 2 we went to a "after hours" party downtown which turned out to be a 200 person rave. Needless to say it was a very "cultural" experience. The weirdest thing about the whole experience was there was a cop at the entrance to the complex pretty much supervising who came in and out! Not only that, they served alcohol at this thing until 6 am! We ended up leaving at 5 am and going back to our friend Chris's place in uptown to pass out. I was absolutely shit-housed.

new plan: less drinkin, more socializin.