Good weekend so far. I havn't done much at all in the terms of cold approaching. My social circle has started to grow exponentially and the last two days I have pretty much been solely dedicated to them. Its been fun, Ive been seeing a couple girls and have a few on the hook. Life again, is pretty darn good.
Lately ive been doing a lot of digging into the heads of some of the more attractive women in my life. Im really just trying to get more first hand insight into how they tick. In doing so, ive started to more solidly formulate what "just be yourself" really means. Women, as most of us already know, have an incredible intuition. From what ive deduced most guys that approach could exponentially improve their performance by dropping the face they put on when talking to an attractive woman. Naturally, a guy wants to "put his best foot forward" so to speak to impress whoever he is talking to. But actually, what this does is throw up flags that you are insincere, creepy and weird. I think this is why routine based game works. The routines are structured in a way that they eliminate this guise, but underneath it all, they are of course still not sincere. They are a great way to learn how social interactions work. There also a great thing to keep in your back pocket to keep an interaction moving. But overall, as your skills progress, they are something that should not be depended on.
The entire process of learning game, in its entirety, is to become a better person who drips with charisma, and with enough practice no matter who you are I believe thats what you can become.
