Wednesday, July 23, 2008
All this work.
Work has really been taxing me these last few weeks. Between my job and my rockstar-esque social agenda I have probably been averaging no more than 4-5 hours of sleep per night. That is, until these last few nights. I think all of my nights of minimal sleep have caught up with me and put me into a narcoleptic state. Two nights ago I slept for 13 hours. Last night I slept for a little over 11. I really don't think this kind of schedule is healthy but whatever, I don't really care. . .
Sunday, July 20, 2008
BE BOLD.
Thats it, no explination needed. Well, maybe a small one. But right now its 8 am on sunday morning, I havn't slept and need to catch some z's and be up in about 4 hours.
Lots of cool stuff goin on right now. Ill start trying to post here more often from now on.
Lots of cool stuff goin on right now. Ill start trying to post here more often from now on.
Saturday, July 5, 2008
Some thoughts on sincerity.
Good weekend so far. I havn't done much at all in the terms of cold approaching. My social circle has started to grow exponentially and the last two days I have pretty much been solely dedicated to them. Its been fun, Ive been seeing a couple girls and have a few on the hook. Life again, is pretty darn good.
Lately ive been doing a lot of digging into the heads of some of the more attractive women in my life. Im really just trying to get more first hand insight into how they tick. In doing so, ive started to more solidly formulate what "just be yourself" really means. Women, as most of us already know, have an incredible intuition. From what ive deduced most guys that approach could exponentially improve their performance by dropping the face they put on when talking to an attractive woman. Naturally, a guy wants to "put his best foot forward" so to speak to impress whoever he is talking to. But actually, what this does is throw up flags that you are insincere, creepy and weird. I think this is why routine based game works. The routines are structured in a way that they eliminate this guise, but underneath it all, they are of course still not sincere. They are a great way to learn how social interactions work. There also a great thing to keep in your back pocket to keep an interaction moving. But overall, as your skills progress, they are something that should not be depended on.
The entire process of learning game, in its entirety, is to become a better person who drips with charisma, and with enough practice no matter who you are I believe thats what you can become.
Lately ive been doing a lot of digging into the heads of some of the more attractive women in my life. Im really just trying to get more first hand insight into how they tick. In doing so, ive started to more solidly formulate what "just be yourself" really means. Women, as most of us already know, have an incredible intuition. From what ive deduced most guys that approach could exponentially improve their performance by dropping the face they put on when talking to an attractive woman. Naturally, a guy wants to "put his best foot forward" so to speak to impress whoever he is talking to. But actually, what this does is throw up flags that you are insincere, creepy and weird. I think this is why routine based game works. The routines are structured in a way that they eliminate this guise, but underneath it all, they are of course still not sincere. They are a great way to learn how social interactions work. There also a great thing to keep in your back pocket to keep an interaction moving. But overall, as your skills progress, they are something that should not be depended on.
The entire process of learning game, in its entirety, is to become a better person who drips with charisma, and with enough practice no matter who you are I believe thats what you can become.
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