My weekend definitely was not very crazy, but overall it was not too bad.
Friday night I went on an excursion trying to find one of my roommates friends house. I got lost on the way there and spent about an hour driving around in some neighborhood with absolutely no idea of where I was. I finally found the place and we headed out. I was completely out of state and upon returning home, I regretted going out. I guess sometimes I just am not in the right mood.
Saturday night however was a lot of fun. Me and the roomies went out to our favorite little mexican place and had a few margaritas. We ran into a couple cute girls and grabbed their numbers before we headed out.
Me and Joe headed downtown around 10:30 and hit the town. There was a live band at the place we ended up at, which proved to be rather entertaining. I owned a few sets and wound up sarging a super cute, short blond with huge knockers. Ill post a FR of the night later, but for now, its bed time.
Sunday, March 23, 2008
Monday, March 10, 2008
Back to Business
The past few weeks for me have been full of ups and downs. I have a lot of stuff going on in my life right now and it has left my mind kind of jumbled.
I had friends visiting from back home the last two weekends so my attention was mainly focused on them.
I am ready to get refocused and resume business as usual.
I had friends visiting from back home the last two weekends so my attention was mainly focused on them.
I am ready to get refocused and resume business as usual.
Thursday, March 6, 2008
Livin' Logistics
Ive realized that where I live and my living surroundings have a huge impact on how well I close.
Right now I have 2 roommates, one of whom is very experienced with women and pulls on a regular basis. The other roommate is the absolute opposite. He is about 3 years older than me and to be honest, im not sure if he has ever had a sexual relationship, EVER. The majority of his friends are exactly like him. I really don't mind spending the occasional night out with these guys, they do have their redeeming qualities, but for the most part they are all chumps. Me and roomie #1 are planning our AFC intervention with roomie #2, don't worry. :)
I also currently live in the burbs.' Being that my most frequented spots are downtown or near the area, for a girl to come home with me, it takes a very large commitment on her part. There are actually some pros to this, but im not convinced they outweigh or are equal to the cons.
For example, if you are brining a girl back to your place all the way out in the burbs, it means that she has almost certainly committed to sleeping with or at least gettin down in some fashion with you that night.
On the other hand. . .
The logistical roadblocks are ridiculous! Lets say she is not quite ready to commit to getting down with you that night. In that case a hike out to the burbs where she will most definitely be spending the night is a deal breaker. In this case, living within earshot of your social venues of choice can dramatically improve your close rate.
Another variable is the roommates.
One thing I have realized is that living with roommates leaves a lot of things out of your control. For example, when I come home some nights I am not sure if my roommates are going to be asleep or having friends over getting drunk. Some situations can create a state break that I would preferably not want to deal with. Anyone living in a similar situation can in some ways relate to this. Anything that is going to make the girl uncomfortable needs to be nixed, and let me tell ya, there have been a few situations with my roommates (even though I still love em) that have made girls uncomfortable.
I have deduced it is really about the most control over the situation as you possibly can, creating smooth bounces that maintains the state of the interaction without any surprises or uncontrollable variables on your end.
The ideal situation would be to live in your own pimped out pad, near the action. But of course, its not a perfect world and you have to deal with the cards you have in front of you. One thing I can say is: With all of these logistical challenges, if you are still pulling, you must be doing something right.
ps. I am planning on making my move this summer. :)
Right now I have 2 roommates, one of whom is very experienced with women and pulls on a regular basis. The other roommate is the absolute opposite. He is about 3 years older than me and to be honest, im not sure if he has ever had a sexual relationship, EVER. The majority of his friends are exactly like him. I really don't mind spending the occasional night out with these guys, they do have their redeeming qualities, but for the most part they are all chumps. Me and roomie #1 are planning our AFC intervention with roomie #2, don't worry. :)
I also currently live in the burbs.' Being that my most frequented spots are downtown or near the area, for a girl to come home with me, it takes a very large commitment on her part. There are actually some pros to this, but im not convinced they outweigh or are equal to the cons.
For example, if you are brining a girl back to your place all the way out in the burbs, it means that she has almost certainly committed to sleeping with or at least gettin down in some fashion with you that night.
On the other hand. . .
The logistical roadblocks are ridiculous! Lets say she is not quite ready to commit to getting down with you that night. In that case a hike out to the burbs where she will most definitely be spending the night is a deal breaker. In this case, living within earshot of your social venues of choice can dramatically improve your close rate.
Another variable is the roommates.
One thing I have realized is that living with roommates leaves a lot of things out of your control. For example, when I come home some nights I am not sure if my roommates are going to be asleep or having friends over getting drunk. Some situations can create a state break that I would preferably not want to deal with. Anyone living in a similar situation can in some ways relate to this. Anything that is going to make the girl uncomfortable needs to be nixed, and let me tell ya, there have been a few situations with my roommates (even though I still love em) that have made girls uncomfortable.
I have deduced it is really about the most control over the situation as you possibly can, creating smooth bounces that maintains the state of the interaction without any surprises or uncontrollable variables on your end.
The ideal situation would be to live in your own pimped out pad, near the action. But of course, its not a perfect world and you have to deal with the cards you have in front of you. One thing I can say is: With all of these logistical challenges, if you are still pulling, you must be doing something right.
ps. I am planning on making my move this summer. :)
LR's/Thoughts
Ive been doing a lot of reading lately. Mostly on how I can tighten up my game. I just want everything to become more natural. Cajun has become my new favorite PUA, his posts on body language and subtext are spot on. Just by focusing on the points he made in a few posts, I have seen a noticeable difference.
With that said, im going to go over a few things ive learned in the past month.
-Women definitely want sex just as much as (if not more than) men.
-About 75% of the time, if a girl approaches you, she is just as nervous and socially un-calibrated as most AFCs. The most common approach ive gotten from a girl is some sort of over sexualized "HEyyyyyy" with a porn-esque seduction look on her face. After reframing ive discovered that she's just a normal girl who wanted to meet me (because we all know that her frame was eventually going no where).
-Its all about the vibe.
-Women are definitely not rational creatures, you flip their switches you can pretty much get away with anything, (more on that later). ;)
-Girls go along with anything if you've run proper game and act like it is completely natural
-Boyfriends don't matter.
-Day 2 movie outings are a terrible stupid idea (finally got this one through my head).
Anyways, A saturday ago, me and the roommates went downtown for a little drinkin/socializin excursion. At around 10:30 I started getting texts from a girl who I had hung out with a few times. We were at a place that really was not happening at all, it was about 10 people sitting around with mope looks on their faces. The drinks were priced right but of course, well, it sucked. Eventually we decided to go meet up with textgirl, she was with a few friends and knew it was in the bag. We ended up meeting them at a 18+ club called Spin. Textgirl met me at the door and drug me upstairs to the VIP.
Kendra from the girls next door was there doing some sort of promo for the club. Life must be rough, partying for a living. We made it to the upper VIP level and went to the back bar a grabbed a drink. I quickly escalated with textgirl and had a quick make out session in a dark corner. I was satisfied taking her home that night.
Eventually we ran into her friends, on of whom was my initial target when I met textgirl. After discovering she had a very serious boyfriend and observing the advances of textgirl I went with the latter.
I chilled for a min and realized there was something going on with the group that had people a little on edge. I still don't really know what was up. Eventually, I got tired of the super negative mood and decided to take control of the situation. I don't remember exactly what I said (it was nothing more than friendly, i wanted to befriend the group to avoid any logistical situations later), but 2 words in my face was met by a hand and a girl saying "STFU, I DONT WANT TO HEAR ANYTHING YOU HAVE TO SAY!" I replied, "Well, thats just fine with me." At which time I walked 5 feet away and immediately opened another group that looked like they were having a blast. I got immediate IOI's from HBbouncy. I dropped into my regular "natural routines" and started framing accordingly.
Ran the You look like trouble game, role playing etc.
I isolated, qualified and started into comfort. During this time she said, "Hey my friends said you were here with thoes girls, whats up with that?!" To which I replied, "Hey, that dosn't mean we cant be friends! Your so cute you could be like my little sister, wait that would be kinda weird wouldent it." She ate it up.
I K-closed and eventually could not get the girl off of me.
It was about this time I realized textgirl was witnessing this all go down. Needless to say, she was none too happy.
I bounced between the two for a bit and eventually came to a revelation. As long as I acted like everything I did was part of my life and natural, the girls I had gamed were ok with it. Eventually, HBbouncy went missing, but I had her # so it was all good. The tracks had been laid.
At this point I was on fire. I had textgirl and boyfriendgirl all over me. I was getting AI's everywhere, jealously plot lines blowin up left and right. Textgirl and boyfriendgirl pulled one last shit test: "I can't believe you, we dont like you anymore for what you did tonight." I back turned and opened a set right behind me. The set flew open but before I could say more than a few sentences textgirl and boyfriendgirl literally pulled me back in.
Textgirl eventually ran off somewhere leaving me with boyfriendgirl. I ran a little attraction which ended in her kissing me.
End of the night rolled around and me and the roomies rolled out with the two girls. At coat check I ran into HBbouncy again. She pleeded with me to call her. She left me with a quick kiss and we were off.
Back at our place we chilled. Things between the group started to get squirlly and eventually ended up in my room. Boyfriend girl followed me right into bed without any coercion, and after dealing with a little LMR, the full monty ensued. At about 5:30 in the morning boyfriendgirl says "Hey, in the morning this never happend, ok?" Thats fine, it was a night of fun and adventure for her, im happy I could provide. Im such a home wrecker. :)
The following friday I was chillin and playing darts with my roomie and eventually met up with HBbouncy. When she rolled in she came upon me gaming 2 HBcollegegirls. I ended up taking HBbouncy back to the pad, and layin her out.
Long post I know, with a lot of details missing. Just a little insight into my life. :)
With that said, im going to go over a few things ive learned in the past month.
-Women definitely want sex just as much as (if not more than) men.
-About 75% of the time, if a girl approaches you, she is just as nervous and socially un-calibrated as most AFCs. The most common approach ive gotten from a girl is some sort of over sexualized "HEyyyyyy" with a porn-esque seduction look on her face. After reframing ive discovered that she's just a normal girl who wanted to meet me (because we all know that her frame was eventually going no where).
-Its all about the vibe.
-Women are definitely not rational creatures, you flip their switches you can pretty much get away with anything, (more on that later). ;)
-Girls go along with anything if you've run proper game and act like it is completely natural
-Boyfriends don't matter.
-Day 2 movie outings are a terrible stupid idea (finally got this one through my head).
Anyways, A saturday ago, me and the roommates went downtown for a little drinkin/socializin excursion. At around 10:30 I started getting texts from a girl who I had hung out with a few times. We were at a place that really was not happening at all, it was about 10 people sitting around with mope looks on their faces. The drinks were priced right but of course, well, it sucked. Eventually we decided to go meet up with textgirl, she was with a few friends and knew it was in the bag. We ended up meeting them at a 18+ club called Spin. Textgirl met me at the door and drug me upstairs to the VIP.
Kendra from the girls next door was there doing some sort of promo for the club. Life must be rough, partying for a living. We made it to the upper VIP level and went to the back bar a grabbed a drink. I quickly escalated with textgirl and had a quick make out session in a dark corner. I was satisfied taking her home that night.
Eventually we ran into her friends, on of whom was my initial target when I met textgirl. After discovering she had a very serious boyfriend and observing the advances of textgirl I went with the latter.
I chilled for a min and realized there was something going on with the group that had people a little on edge. I still don't really know what was up. Eventually, I got tired of the super negative mood and decided to take control of the situation. I don't remember exactly what I said (it was nothing more than friendly, i wanted to befriend the group to avoid any logistical situations later), but 2 words in my face was met by a hand and a girl saying "STFU, I DONT WANT TO HEAR ANYTHING YOU HAVE TO SAY!" I replied, "Well, thats just fine with me." At which time I walked 5 feet away and immediately opened another group that looked like they were having a blast. I got immediate IOI's from HBbouncy. I dropped into my regular "natural routines" and started framing accordingly.
Ran the You look like trouble game, role playing etc.
I isolated, qualified and started into comfort. During this time she said, "Hey my friends said you were here with thoes girls, whats up with that?!" To which I replied, "Hey, that dosn't mean we cant be friends! Your so cute you could be like my little sister, wait that would be kinda weird wouldent it." She ate it up.
I K-closed and eventually could not get the girl off of me.
It was about this time I realized textgirl was witnessing this all go down. Needless to say, she was none too happy.
I bounced between the two for a bit and eventually came to a revelation. As long as I acted like everything I did was part of my life and natural, the girls I had gamed were ok with it. Eventually, HBbouncy went missing, but I had her # so it was all good. The tracks had been laid.
At this point I was on fire. I had textgirl and boyfriendgirl all over me. I was getting AI's everywhere, jealously plot lines blowin up left and right. Textgirl and boyfriendgirl pulled one last shit test: "I can't believe you, we dont like you anymore for what you did tonight." I back turned and opened a set right behind me. The set flew open but before I could say more than a few sentences textgirl and boyfriendgirl literally pulled me back in.
Textgirl eventually ran off somewhere leaving me with boyfriendgirl. I ran a little attraction which ended in her kissing me.
End of the night rolled around and me and the roomies rolled out with the two girls. At coat check I ran into HBbouncy again. She pleeded with me to call her. She left me with a quick kiss and we were off.
Back at our place we chilled. Things between the group started to get squirlly and eventually ended up in my room. Boyfriend girl followed me right into bed without any coercion, and after dealing with a little LMR, the full monty ensued. At about 5:30 in the morning boyfriendgirl says "Hey, in the morning this never happend, ok?" Thats fine, it was a night of fun and adventure for her, im happy I could provide. Im such a home wrecker. :)
The following friday I was chillin and playing darts with my roomie and eventually met up with HBbouncy. When she rolled in she came upon me gaming 2 HBcollegegirls. I ended up taking HBbouncy back to the pad, and layin her out.
Long post I know, with a lot of details missing. Just a little insight into my life. :)
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